Survivor’s Guilt
Emily Giffin’s recent release The Summer Pact is a thoughtful tale of survivor’s guilt and much, much more. This novel touched me so much that a spot is reserved for it on the Best Books of 2024 list. Yet, it is not a feel-good, easy summer read. Topics covered include alcoholism, suicide, infidelity, and parental/societal disproval. Furthermore, the author shines a spotlight on Millennials and their struggle to find themselves long after reaching adulthood.
The Summer Pact Theme
At the heart of The Summer Pact is a response of three college friends after a close fourth commits suicide. Each carries guilt from not being there for their friend Summer. So, a pact was agreed on to not follow the same path without giving the others time to reach out. Hannah is the first to call for help after discovering her fiancée in bed with another just weeks before her wedding.
True to the agreement, Lainey and Tyson drop everything and fly to help. From this point on, the novel delves into the backstories of the three characters while the action propels each one forward towards discovery of where to go, how to act and just who they really are.
Discovery
Giffin is outstanding in her non-judgmental approach to multiple topics. Open minded readers will appreciate the social twists presented in the story. Furthermore, the characters are so complex and vulnerable, one aches for their difficulties and celebrates their triumphs.
Perhaps there are families in this world where everything follows the norms of the 1950s. But for the rest, a novel such as The Summer Pact is refreshingly honest. To quote Reinhold Niebuhr: Change is the essence of life; be willing to surrender what you are for what you could become. Throughout The Summer Pact, Hannah, Lainey and Tyson do just that on their way forward on life’s path.
This weekend’s PGA tournament sponsored by BMW is filled with the magnificent sights and sounds of the Castle Pines Golf Club. Even though the area is south of the Denver Metro Area, the topography is akin to the foothills to the west of the city.































Weekend trips to Wyoming and the mountains of Colorado provided relief from the heat. Wyoming is a sparsely populated state and has much to offer. It will be interesting to see if the fairly recent discovery of the rare earth minerals needed to make computer chips changes the demographics.


June is synonymous with blooming bushes and my thoughts turn to
The creeper and bindweed get top billing and first attack due to their invasiveness. The bindweed is in a few spots in the lot. Unfortunately, it is close to overtaking one of the front beds. My attempts to eradicate it are foiled by the persistence of the weed. Additionally, the bed is difficult to weed because ants have made the area into a home.























The High Plains is notorious for late freezes and April 2024 was ushered in with temperatures in the teens. But my Bur Oak has leafed out. In almost 30 years, this tree popping forth new leaves means spring is here. And frost is banished for the summer. Perhaps this changing climate will trick both me and the oak, however I am ready to gamble. And once before the oak did leaf out in April.

